Wife Faction and Chanter Bliss

So last nigt I levelled up my EQ Enchantress Lethanna to 16. She has a mana regen spell now which should make her quite popular in groups, and cut down on the amount of time I spend with her sitting on her butt meditating to get mana back.
 
Playing a Chanter is actually turning out to be quite the challenge. They have such glass jaws that any mob that gets through that I can't Charm, Mesmerize, Root or somehow stop is going to send me running for my life. But like good Mexican food, when it doesn't turn on me it can be extremely satisfying.
 
My only problem right now with all of this fun is that my wife is a typical girly girl, and has been giving me increasinly more crap about my time playing games (RPG, PS2 or computer). I don't spend all my time doing this, but I do get on EQ or some sort of game at least for 15 minutes or so a night, sometimes more. She wants me to watch tv with her and go to bed at the same time she does, but the tv is usually the latest Wifetime "Very Special Movie" or some sort of Trading Spaces clone. She doesn't even like me being on my laptop anymore to shout out my thoughts here or surf.
 
I'm honestly not sure how to resolve this yet. She has always hated me gaming, but I have to take some time for me sometimes or I'll go stark raving mad and try and redecorate our living room while pretending I'm a tough but sensitive woman cop on the edge.   :-)